How Internalized Homophobia Impacts Gay Relationships

How Internalized Homophobia Impacts Gay Relationships

Internalized Homophobia Is Always Hidden My first long term relationship ended because of internalized homophobia. It was 1990-something around Christmas time and we were living together on Gay street in Portland, OR. Really. He had spent most of the day at the tavern...
How Gay Men Think About Relationships: People Pleasing

How Gay Men Think About Relationships: People Pleasing

Parents And Others Expectations People pleasing is embedded in gay men very early. The first gay men I was directly exposed to were a pedophile (who was actively stalking me) and an actor in community theatre. The pedophile was arrested and the actor died within a...
Should You Get Queer Relationship Advice From Tarot

Should You Get Queer Relationship Advice From Tarot

You’ve been trying to discover the secret to finding the perfect relationship forever. Well, after (do we really say a number or lie?) so many failed relationships, glorious nights that went nowhere, alleys, truck beds (she’s country), and a nearly 20 year marriage,...