So I just wanted to let you know that you were right about that “friendship” I had ending. I’d like to say Im sad its over but to be honest Im really not! Thank you though, Im really glad I asked you for your advice and help!
The Joy Of Gay Joy
To survive as a gay person today, joy must be present. Gay joy is different for everyone. When I think of moments of joy I remember so many things. All retrospective. Tap shoes and a gold sequined vest with matching top hatChristmas morning and opening the...
Tarot Of The Divine Masculine: A Kickstarter Review
Marko & Filip Vasich approached me about reviewing their upcoming Kickstarter project, Tarot of the Divine Masculine. Two cousins, they’ve been working on this deck for at least four years. And the effort they’ve put into the deck shows. Marko & Filip...
Queer Masculinity: What Happens When Being Blinded By Your Shadow
Shadow  Dancing My shadow is about wanting to be accepted. Primarily for my version of queer masculinity. And the fear is that I’ll be seen as less-than. I fear others’ perception of what queer masculinity is. And I fear the rejection of what queer masculinity...
How To Maintain A Stronger Gay Relationship
I get asked all the time about gay relationships. It’s my favorite topic! You might recognize yourself sounding like this: Love life. (Seth: BTW, this is a statement)~Shy Queer Who Hasn’t Had a Reading Before I don’t know. I’m just kinda looking for,...
Tarot For Troubled Times – A Recommendation
When we look back at pivotal moments in history, great change always seems to be the aftermath. What so many fail to see is that great change is already upon us and those pivotal moments are actually the anti-climax. What I love about Tarot for Troubled Times, by...
Intersectionality And Queer Relationships
Through my work I’m exposed to a lot of different people. Intersectionality is part and parcel to everything I do. But it’s not always my first thought. Because I’m allowed to see the world through the eyes of a white, CIS gendered male, who’s middle aged. But...
My Coming Out Story: What It’s Really Like
What’s It Like Before Coming Out? Before I came out I remember being really angry. Always angry. Before I came out I remember being alone. Very alone. Before I came out I remember being a disappointment. Always disappointing. Before I came out I remember...
Does Reading Tarot Make you Less Of A Man?
Internalized homophobia is one of the most challenging parts of being a gay man. You’re wracked with moments where you question if you’re going to be clocked. Like when that Evita album cover comes up on your iPhone while you’re really feeling...