Michael Herkes – Patreon Early Soltice Release

Moon Phases & GLAM with Michael HerkesMichael Herkes has forged his own path and discovered his own traditions. He explores and shares his journey in both his books, The GLAM Witch and The Complete Book of Moon Spells.We talked about his discovery of self, coming...

Coming Out of the Tarot Closet With Mark Horn

Meet Mark HornMark and I went discussed a very personal journey that he shares with such openness and honesty. I’m grateful to share it with you. I hope you not only enjoy it but that you find yourself ready to start your own personal spiritual journey with a little...
How Queer Community Reconnects After COVID-19

How Queer Community Reconnects After COVID-19

I was in a group of other queer business owners at the end of April and one of the members very thoughtfully asked how the queer community is going to reconnect as restrictions are lifted from COVID-19. And I think this is going to be extremely challenging. We’re...
Gay Men Repress Love And Joy

Gay Men Repress Love And Joy

I’m Not Crying You’re Crying The first time I had a best friend I was seven. Then our family moved and changed schools. I never saw him again. It’s taken me nearly 38 years to even consider that I might want another best friend. Or that I would let...
Mediumship Meditation Preparation Before Reading

Mediumship Meditation Preparation Before Reading

You know that feeling when things keep happening and they seem out of your control? Like when you are frustrated because you keep getting behind the slow driver in the fast lane for your entire trip. Or when you have a nagging feeling that you should be doing...
How To Improve The Spaces Between In Gay Relationships

How To Improve The Spaces Between In Gay Relationships

In the late 90’s I was in the longest of all the gay relationships I had ever been in. I also felt the most lost in it. I relied on Lelio to be my world. And that certainly wasn’t a healthy relationship. It was a co-dependent one. I was in school and we were playing...
Gay Daddy And Sexy Silver Vibes

Gay Daddy And Sexy Silver Vibes

Hey Daddy I was eyeballed with a “Hey, Daddy” look. I know, I perfected it. I was walking down the street the other day, on my way to work, same route I always take. But this day was different. I had a beard. My beard is primarily white with a darker...
Finding Gay Joy

Finding Gay Joy

For some gay people finding joy is about acceptance through heteronormative assimilation (Think marriage and “we’re just like you”). For others it’s about living their queerest gayest fantasy. And for others it’s about bucking every heteronormative...
How To Have Better Holidays For Queer People

How To Have Better Holidays For Queer People

Holidays, for queer people, are some of the most challenging times of the year. We’re forced to confront our insecurities about family. And if you’re like me, that also means going home to the town of less than 10K people. Where everybody knows everybody. And...