by Seth | Feb 17, 2020 | Divination
You know that feeling when things keep happening and they seem out of your control? Like when you are frustrated because you keep getting behind the slow driver in the fast lane for your entire trip. Or when you have a nagging feeling that you should be doing...
by Seth | Jan 13, 2020 | Relationships
In the late 90’s I was in the longest of all the gay relationships I had ever been in. I also felt the most lost in it. I relied on Lelio to be my world. And that certainly wasn’t a healthy relationship. It was a co-dependent one. I was in school and we were playing...
by Seth | Dec 22, 2019 | Relationships
Hey Daddy I was eyeballed with a “Hey, Daddy” look. I know, I perfected it. I was walking down the street the other day, on my way to work, same route I always take. But this day was different. I had a beard. My beard is primarily white with a darker...
by Seth | Nov 11, 2019 | Life
For some gay people finding joy is about acceptance through heteronormative assimilation (Think marriage and “we’re just like youâ€). For others it’s about living their queerest gayest fantasy. And for others it’s about bucking every heteronormative...
by Seth | Nov 1, 2019 | Life
Holidays, for queer people, are some of the most challenging times of the year. We’re forced to confront our insecurities about family. And if you’re like me, that also means going home to the town of less than 10K people. Where everybody knows everybody. And...