Mediumship Meditation Preparation Before Reading

Mediumship Meditation Preparation Before Reading

You know that feeling when things keep happening and they seem out of your control? Like when you are frustrated because you keep getting behind the slow driver in the fast lane for your entire trip. Or when you have a nagging feeling that you should be doing...
How To Improve The Spaces Between In Gay Relationships

How To Improve The Spaces Between In Gay Relationships

In the late 90’s I was in the longest of all the gay relationships I had ever been in. I also felt the most lost in it. I relied on Lelio to be my world. And that certainly wasn’t a healthy relationship. It was a co-dependent one. I was in school and we were playing...
Gay Daddy And Sexy Silver Vibes

Gay Daddy And Sexy Silver Vibes

Hey Daddy I was eyeballed with a “Hey, Daddy” look. I know, I perfected it. I was walking down the street the other day, on my way to work, same route I always take. But this day was different. I had a beard. My beard is primarily white with a darker...
Finding Gay Joy

Finding Gay Joy

For some gay people finding joy is about acceptance through heteronormative assimilation (Think marriage and “we’re just like you”). For others it’s about living their queerest gayest fantasy. And for others it’s about bucking every heteronormative...
How To Have Better Holidays For Queer People

How To Have Better Holidays For Queer People

Holidays, for queer people, are some of the most challenging times of the year. We’re forced to confront our insecurities about family. And if you’re like me, that also means going home to the town of less than 10K people. Where everybody knows everybody. And...