When you go to a doctor do you tell the doctor that everything is fine?  Does it feel like he’s up in your business? Or do you share with the doctor the symptoms that you’ve been experiencing that you went to the doctor for in the first place?
When you don’t share those symptoms, when you hold back, then you don’t give the doctor enough information to diagnose and treat you properly.
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You should think about the next steps in your career or your relationships the same way when you come to a tarot reader. I don’t want the dirt on your life. I don’t want the gossip that is salacious about your life.
I DO want the symptoms of the challenges that are holding you back. That way I can prescribe the next steps in activating you to be engaged in your life and be successful.
You’re Judging Me
I want to be very clear that I don’t do tarot to judge people, especially you. [perfectpullquote align=”full” bordertop=”false” cite=”” link=”” color=”” class=”” size=””]I use tarot to help confirm where you are today and give you the steps you need to achieve your goals tomorrow.[/perfectpullquote]
I use tarot to ensure that you walk away from my table or FaceTime feeling better than you did when you first sat down. The only reason we’re gonna get into your business is to take your business to a better place.
You Can Solve Your Own Problems
It is my hope that when you have had a tarot reading that you are able to solve your own problems. My effort is to give you the jumping off point. I want to give you the steps to get started with.
Once you got those steps then everything else is up to you. You can choose to take the actions you’re given or you can choose to ignore them.
Feel Better
In the end you should feel better than when you first sat down with me. I also hope that I can inspire your trust. I have no desire to share what we talk about with anyone you know. Actually, I’d be surprised if I knew the same people you knew.
And I also don’t wanna share it with anyone I know. Because it’s none of their business. If there is something about your reading that is important for the well-being of another then I will ask you if I can share it. You can see an example of some of that in my testimonials.
Will you tell me if I’ll die?
I’ll tell you right now. Yes you will die. I won’t do a reading on when you’ll die. And find out more about my code of ethics here.
Will you tell me if I’m getting a divorce/cheating?
In general, I don’t answer yes or no questions. I think tarot is a more powerful tool to dig deeper into the questions that can take you further in your life then just answering yes or no. If you had asked me about the conditions surrounding your relationship (verbatim like that or, for example, how would I know if my partner was cheating?) with your husband-partner-girlfriend-boyfriend-whatever and something indicated to me that there was cheating or a split to come then I would share that with you. Then we can talk about your next steps. Do you want to work on how you can strengthen your relationship? Or do you want to work on how you can leave?
Will you tell me things I don’t want to know?
I can honestly say that I’ve never had someone tell me after reading that I told them something they didn’t want to know. I think part of the reason for this is that I work with you to get really specific with your questions. So I’m getting a direct response to the question you asked.
That’s another reason I don’t do general readings. Tarot is a tool for transformation. And there’s nothing general about your opportunity to transform your life. So let’s talk about what you DO need to know rather than fear you’ll hear something.
Some Personal Questions
I’m gonna share some of the questions I get with you so you know that you can ask me almost anything. I’m not attributing these to anyone. Again, this is a judgment free zone. My goal in sharing these is to let you know that your experience is normal and if you’re feeling embarrassed, that’s normal too. Let’s push through that get to the other side.  Where the magic happens.
- My husband has passed. Is he proud of me and how I’m raising our family?
- I’m thinking of having my tubes tied what’s the outcome if I do?
- What’s the next step I need to take in my business?
- I’m going on a date this weekend. What are the conditions surrounding this potential relationship?
- I’m thinking about getting a new job. What’s the outcome if I stay in my current job versus taking the new one?
I Could Never Ask You That
Now if you’re not sure that you’d be comfortable asking me these types of questions then you should check out my post on how to choose the best tarot reader for you and traits you should look for in a tarot reader.
That’s My Business
So if you feel like going to a tarot reader means that someone you don’t know is gonna be all up in your business then I would caution you against a couple things the newbies in the space tend to do.
- Decide if you want to go get a free reading. Some people who are giving away free readings often don’t have the experience behind them to know what to keep to themselves. They may also not have a code of ethics that can give you the trust you need in knowing that this person is going to be able to safeguard your information.
- Do interview more than one tarot reader. An interview can look like actually talking to a tarot reader or you can go social stalk them. Or both! I say this because you should feel a sense of comfort in connection with the person you’re about to share some intimate details with. And that’s on you.
You’re In Control
So all this to say that I believe you only feel like a tarot reader is all up in your business if you give them all your business. [perfectpullquote align=”right” bordertop=”false” cite=”” link=”” color=”” class=”” size=””]You control the reading.[/perfectpullquote]
You control the outcome. All you have to do is guide the reading in the direction that you want it to go. Â Ask the question that can activate and engage you in creating transformation in your life.
If you’re ready for a change – take control and get on the journey to excellence today.