I Want a Tarot Reading.
Whenever I hear or read that you want a tarot reading, or that you need a tarot reading, I wonder if you also think about the Tarot reader that you’re about to find.
You and your reader should have a connection. If you’re not vibing then there’s bound to be friction. And that never ends up with a great Tarot reading experience.
Here are four traits about a Tarot reader you may not have thought about that could mean the world of difference in your connection.
1. Gender
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I’m a guy. Most people immediately think of Tarot readers as women. (Thanks Hollywood!) I’ve noticed that when you reach out for a reading (overall) you tend to ask me less relationship questions and more business advice. Though I certainly get both. It’s kinda like 45/55 percent split. Which seems to be (over-archingly) the exact opposite for my female counterparts.
2. Sexuality
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I’m an out gay guy. Being gay provides a different perspective on my readings. Especially when I’m reading for members of the LGBTQ community. It’s freeing to hear your preferred pronouns in reference to yourself or your partner a safe space. And shared experience of the gay community is a real thing. And all you allies out there, I got your back too.
3. Mindset
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Professionally, I’m a project manager. That type of mindset informs my readings and the follow up I offer. I’m not fluffy fairies. There are some readers who are adept at talking through how your chakras need to be recharged and your aura is weak. This is not me during a reading. I use it professionally to prepare for your reading. But you won’t hear me talk about it related to you. I have great respect for those aspects of our combined spiritual work. But it’s not going to come out of my mouth, most of the time. My readings tend to be pragmatic, practical, confirming, and outlining your next steps.
4. Experience
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When you choose the best Tarot reader for yourself, you’ll want to decide what kind of experience you want. Do you want to focus on energy work and have a Reiki treatment? Do you want to speak to someone who is overly polite with a kind word around every corner? Or do you want plain conversation with someone who’s probably going to through “fuck†into the conversation at some point? (Which one do you think I am?) Readers are as varied as our clients. Determine where your comfort level lies and you’ll be well on your way to finding the best Tarot reader for you.
Choose the Right Tarot Reader for You!
Choosing the right tarot reader means you’ll have someone in your corner who you can trust. Someone objective/neutral that can see your current problem and provide clarity and next steps for you to implement. I want to confirm where you are today and give you the steps you need to achieve your goals tomorrow so that you’re activating your life, creating momentum and getting shit done.
Want to find out more about choosing the right Tarot reader for you? Then you need to check out this post.