How often do you realize that it’s time to change your life? About over 10 years or so, roughly. that’s what it’s been like for me. I notice it when I hit the threes, 13, 23, 33, 43… Those threes don’t scare me, the sixes do, cause that means I’m past the midpoint. Past the point of no return. A round number is just around the corner!
TIME TO CHANGE YOUR LIFE
I said to myself, it’s time to change your life. I remember coming out when I was 20. Fitting. If I acquaint that to the Judgement card in Tarot, I was being called to share my truth. It was time for me to be reborn. 23 though, that’s when I was ready to tell the world. ‘Cause love had entered my life. (Well, it’d entered many times before, but now it was real)
Tell me if this sounds like you:
- Before you came out you had at least one date that felt really awkward like the other person knew what was going on but you didn’t have a clue
- Before you came out you did a lot of soul searching to decide if what you were feeling was really true
- Before you came out you met someone larger than life that seemed to have it all – comfort, lifestyle, freedom, safety – and they were just like you. Except for all the awesome stuff.
- Before you came out you dealt with someone like your dad (prob your dad) that tried to keep you in a box
- Before you came out you had to wrestle with your faith and you may have given up or found something new to believe in
- Before you came out you had at least one really AH-mazing relationship that made you want to share it with the world
- Before you came out you realized you had to come out
RECOGNIZE THE MILESTONES
Did you recognize them? Those experiences? They may not always occur in this order, but each one tends to be a universal experience before or near coming out. The Fool has taken this exact journey. Each of you, in step, will change your life.
Once the Fool comes out, there’s no putting that genie back in the bottle. It’s frightening, isn’t it? Along the way you learn how people react, respond, feel, what they think about you, and if they’re truly ready to stand by your side.
PREPARING TO CHANGE YOUR LIFE
Each bullet above is how the Fool moves through the first seven cards of the Major Arcana in the Tarot. It’s the same journey you take when you’re preparing to change your life. So what do you do if you realize you’re going through these stages? You contact your Tarot reader! If you don’t have one, here’s how to find & trust a Tarot reader that fits you.
If you feel like you’re in any of these stages, let me know. A Tarot reading just may help you better understand the precipice you’re on and help to clarify the pivotal moment that will change your life. Not only that, but we can decide your next course of action so that life isn’t happening to you. But rather, you’re living your best life.