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The Easy Queer Holiday Survival Guide You Need
I’ve been thinking a lot lately about how our chosen family preps us queer people for holiday survival. And for people like us, we might be stepping away from the safety that our chosen family brings. So I wanted to provide some ideas on how to bring that queer...
The Joy Of Gay Joy
To survive as a gay person today, joy must be present. Gay joy is different for everyone. When I think of moments of joy I remember so many things. All retrospective. Tap shoes and a gold sequined vest with matching top hatChristmas morning and opening the...
Queer Masculinity: What Happens When Being Blinded By Your Shadow
Shadow  Dancing My shadow is about wanting to be accepted. Primarily for my version of queer masculinity. And the fear is that I’ll be seen as less-than. I fear others’ perception of what queer masculinity is. And I fear the rejection of what queer masculinity...
Tarot For Troubled Times – A Recommendation
When we look back at pivotal moments in history, great change always seems to be the aftermath. What so many fail to see is that great change is already upon us and those pivotal moments are actually the anti-climax. What I love about Tarot for Troubled Times, by...